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You've persuaded me that you were emotionally scarred by one or more gaijin males whom you believe failed to show interest in you at some point, which incited you to tirade for revenge on this site.

Relationships are so much easier without the feminazi psychological component

Relationships are so much easier when I get everything I want.

If you have a vagina and an attitude in this town, then that's a lethal combination.

Why so against me, and other men, getting what we want?

concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself : seeking or concentrating on one's own advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard for others

> Sharon Stone wrote:
> If you have a vagina and an attitude in this town, that's a
> lethal combination.

Nice attempt, but a little ridiculous sounding. There are surgeries for chicks who wish they had more testosterone.

James Dabbs, Jr., studied 4,462 men in 1990 and found that "the overall picture among the high-testosterone men is one of delinquency, substance abuse and a tendency toward excess." These men, he added, "have more trouble with people like teachers while they are growing up, have more sexual partners, are more likely to have gone AWOL in the service and to have used hard drugs," particularly if they had poor educations and low incomes. A separate study by Dabbs of young male prison inmates found that high testosterone levels were associated with more violent crimes, parole board decisions against release, and more prison rule violations.

Dabbs et al. say that "the variety of rule violations suggests the behavior of high testosterone individuals reflects intractability, unmanageability, and lack of docility as well as aggression and violence."

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"Testosterone, crime, and misbehavior among 692 male prison inmates," James M. Dabbs, Jr., et al., Person. individ. Diff., Vol. 18, No. 5, 1995. Address: James M. Dabbs, Jr., Dept. of Psychology, Georgia State University, University Plaza, Atlanta, GA 30303- 3083.

Hey Thelma,

I think you basically answered your one question. Just take a minute to look back at your post. The reason these `nerds` go for other girls besides yourself is probably because they don`t want to deal with your attitude and jealousy. You are just mad that these guys aren`t giving you all the attention, and that`s why you have to hate on Japanese girls. It`s the typical American girl attitude, the guys that you consider way out of your league back in the states now won`t even give you the time of day. Therefore, you are mad and have to use someone as your scapegoat. It sounds like you are feeling pretty insecure, so why don`t you go and find your own dude instead about whining about how the geeks at your work won`t take interest in you. Then you ask are these guys going gay, because they are liking the more petite body with less breasts and minimal junk in the trunk. If you look at it for a minute, if the girls got some hips on her, when she gets older you know she`s gonna become a big girl if she doesn`t bust her ass to work out. Also, too much breastisis is not a lot of guys ideal size. It`s all about personal preference, and if someone likes a certain style then that is their business. I am far from a nerd, and I have no problems with dating girls from any race, but man seriously if you take the ratio of good looking girls to bad looking girls in the States and compare it to Japan, then you could see that there is no comparison. In the States you might find 2 to 3 girls out of 10 hot, but if you look at Japanese girls it`s more like 7 to 8 out of 10 hot. That`s my personal opinion and I`m sure it can be debated, but at least where I was living in the States that`s what I observed. The whole point of this post is that people are attracted to all sorts of kinds of people, and if you are mad that these Japanese girls are the topic of interest to your co-workers, than just get over it. Instead of saying that it`s the `geeks` fault, maybe you should take a look at yourself first, and then you might realize that you have a lot of issues you need to deal with, especially insecurity. I mean you are living in Japan right now, so why don`t you try to date a Japanese guy? I am sure it would be an interesting experience. You may not like it, but who knows maybe if you tried it you might be suprised. The world is full of interesting people, so the only challenge is to find that one that you click with. Well that`s all I have to say, so just tone it done a little, and stop blaming people for being attracted to the people that they are.