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I'm been in Tokyo for two months now and there are these really geeky guys at work, who are crazy for J-girls.

I consider myself extremely attractive, dress well and am intelligent. But some of these guys, which I wouldn't even give a glance to back in the States, are only interested in J-Girls - what gives?

I mean really - these geeks not only cannot teach English they cannot even speak it!

I'm thinking since some of these girls have no breast or butt that these guys are really just latently gay Is this the explanation

If you lightened up, maybe you would enjoy your stay in Japan

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Joe Steel
Don't question authority --- they don't know either.

Thelma, do we geeks not deserve love too? If you are too good for us, why shouldn't we look elsewhere? And I am personally offended by your stupid poll. Why are you being mean?

Geeks like you should not be adding to the gene pool. Back in the States, we women effectivily prevent you from polluting future generations with Nerd genes. When J-Girls breed with you geeks, then future generations will suffer with a surfeit of geek flotsum.

Hey Thelma,

I think you basically answered your one question. Just take a minute to look back at your post. The reason these `nerds` go for other girls besides yourself is probably because they don`t want to deal with your attitude and jealousy. You are just mad that these guys aren`t giving you all the attention, and that`s why you have to hate on Japanese girls. It`s the typical American girl attitude, the guys that you consider way out of your league back in the states now won`t even give you the time of day. Therefore, you are mad and have to use someone as your scapegoat. It sounds like you are feeling pretty insecure, so why don`t you go and find your own dude instead about whining about how the geeks at your work won`t take interest in you. Then you ask are these guys going gay, because they are liking the more petite body with less breasts and minimal junk in the trunk. If you look at it for a minute, if the girls got some hips on her, when she gets older you know she`s gonna become a big girl if she doesn`t bust her ass to work out. Also, too much breastisis is not a lot of guys ideal size. It`s all about personal preference, and if someone likes a certain style then that is their business. I am far from a nerd, and I have no problems with dating girls from any race, but man seriously if you take the ratio of good looking girls to bad looking girls in the States and compare it to Japan, then you could see that there is no comparison. In the States you might find 2 to 3 girls out of 10 hot, but if you look at Japanese girls it`s more like 7 to 8 out of 10 hot. That`s my personal opinion and I`m sure it can be debated, but at least where I was living in the States that`s what I observed. The whole point of this post is that people are attracted to all sorts of kinds of people, and if you are mad that these Japanese girls are the topic of interest to your co-workers, than just get over it. Instead of saying that it`s the `geeks` fault, maybe you should take a look at yourself first, and then you might realize that you have a lot of issues you need to deal with, especially insecurity. I mean you are living in Japan right now, so why don`t you try to date a Japanese guy? I am sure it would be an interesting experience. You may not like it, but who knows maybe if you tried it you might be suprised. The world is full of interesting people, so the only challenge is to find that one that you click with. Well that`s all I have to say, so just tone it done a little, and stop blaming people for being attracted to the people that they are.

My attitude is cool. I am just trying to add a little levity to this forum by cutting down you nerds (perhaps too easy a target). And about you geeks pollutin' the gene pool - you know I was just kidding right? - afterall, I'm not a Nazi - I just play one on TV.

But......

The fact of the matter is that you Nerds in Japan are getting a free ride - that you don't deserve. It is not because I am interested in going out with one of you geeks - it's more out of compassion for my fellow J-Girl sisters that I bemoan this travesty of nature. These J-Girls deserve better - that's all.

Hey, Mr. Rage Against Daddy, why don't you like your daddy?

Hey, how old are you anyway? - you write like the idiots I work with. I hope you don't teach English - the J-Girls deserve better - better English teachers and better men.

Regarding going out with a Japanese guy - well there are only two types of guys in Japan: Native Nerds and Gaijin Geeks!

Native Nerds and Gaijin Geeks

I have to agree with you Thelma that most of the guys here are geeks - but I'm not. I think you mentioned you are in Tokyo - well if you want to go down ... to Nagoya I think I can make you feel like a woman again.

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Joe Steel
Don't question authority --- they don't know either.

I know you Joe Steel. You've got the body of a 60 year old stroke victim and you're bald. So forget going down on Thelma. Its obvious this twenty-nothing fat-ass American chick is insanely jealous at the fine women in Japan. She's one of those over-educated white Yentles whose shit don't smell. They spend their two or three year stay in Japan bitching and moaning about how unfair life in Japan is for women, how under-appreciated her skills are, how her education is going to waste, blah blah blah. Listen Thelma dear, I suggest you take advantage of the naïveté of the native male population and get laid while you can. Because the only tail you'll probably get back in Butt-Fart Omaha will be in the back of a pick up...you, Bubba and a six pack. *F-word CENSORED* white bitches piss me off. Let me know when you're in Nagoya so I can give you what you really need: A good hard *F-word CENSORED*.

I think you are confusing me with my ex co-worker Deano. I have the body of a Greek god with beautiful golden brown locks.

Hey Mr. Jap-Chicks-Rule, I think you don't have to be so insulting to Thelma - I think she is saying things half in jest. And frankly she is right that most guys here are geeks. Especially the guys that have been here a long time - not only can't they get laid back home but the best job they can hope for in their home country is eventually making assistant manager at McDonalds.

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Joe Steel
Don't question authority --- they don't know either.

He is not fat and only bald cause he shaves his head...I agree Thelma most of these Nerds and Geeks can only get laid in Japan mostly cause of a culture deficiency to be able to say no and a sick curiosity of boink a gaijin...(especially Nerds and Geeks) but also those with low standards....guys like JoeSteel are the lowest of standards also known as the LCD ie. lowest common denominator....

The only thing worse than the usually run-of-the-mill wimpy geek, is a geek with an attitude. Sorry Joe, you and your buddy, Jap-chicks-rules are another proof that men evolved from the apes.

Neanderthal Nerds!

At least in prehistoric times, you nerds with your thick glasses would have been eliminated from the gene pool by your inability to hunt. Now you are spreading your flotsum all over this formerly beautiful country.

I say we urge the donothinggovernment of Koizumi to adopt a kill on sight geeks and nerds bill. Enacting this law should reduce the number of joes, nerds, geeks....

All this should allow for the nature selection of the strongest, fittest and most intelligent, best looking to enjoy the company of intelligent, sexy, kind women of the Thelma type.

So...downwithgeeksandnerds....lock them up in a gov. lab for experimentation...

hate to say it, but Japan needs gaijin geeks. how else would the j-girls learn engrish????
there seems to be a HUGE complex problem with non-j-girls. I am sure they feel LARGE around the small assed and, for the most part, small breasted women. If large breasts and asses + attitude is the only thing gaijin women have to offer, I will stick with the j-babes!!! After all, a mouthful of tit is all i need!

I knew a Brit who was/is quite a B****. Not good looking, tall, fat, big breasted...of course bad teeth...not groovy baby.....a female geek....but gawd what an attitude.
Thelma if your the woman you say you are without an attitude of some of the gaijin girls I've met here.....marry me!

I know Joe likes the concentration-camp-skinny types home grown here, but I'd have to say i prefer some curves on a woman.